Encouraging language skills
“Research has shown that there are two critical components to language development: the number of words kids hear and the amount of encouragement they receive,” says Steve Berman, M.D., a language-development expert and past president of the American Academy of Pediatrics.
Here are some ideas to encourage your child’s language development:
1. Talk, Talk, Talk Keep up a “running dialog” with your child. Name the things you see, ask him what he thinks about it, etc. For example: “Here is your right shoe, let’s put it on. Now let’s go outside. Do you see the doggy? What color is the doggy?…” By filling their ears with language, in context, the child will make the connections.
2. Wait, Wait, Wait So often, we want to anticipate a child’s needs and therefore he doesn’t need to speak. Let your child ask for a drink, encourage him to “use your words” and reward him with every attempt. He may be frustrated, trying to find the words, but resist the temptation to fill it in and he will feel the success of communicating.
3. Sing, Sing, Sing Children (and adults) learn and retain ideas that are put to music. Especially music that includes actions, “Itsy Bitsy Spider”, “I’m a Little Teapot”, “The Wheels on the Bus”, etc. The actions in conjunction with the words and the tune help emphasize the concept of the words.
4. Read, Read, Read It is so important to read to your child, to expose them to the beautiful and fun language of children’s literature. Do not limit yourself to simply reading the words on the page. Point out what is in the picture, ask your child to identify an object in the book, and talk about how you would feel if you were the person in the book. Reading to your child broadens their vocabulary and also gives you important bonding time together.
5. Relax This will not happen all at once, but if you are anxious, it can transmit to your child and they may feel like a failure. Keep talking, encouraging, and be patient.
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